Fear of loss
In most cases , the fear of abandonment develops in early childhood , often in the period , age from conception to about 6 years ,
because there we store EVERYTHING unfiltered in the subconscious. This is also the reason why people who suffer from this fear do not find an explanation for it.
In situations where they are confronted with their fears, they react completely childlike and are convinced that they are completely alone and no one is there for them.
Such strong feelings of abandonment usually occur only in intense and intimate relationships. People with such fears also have these problems in friendships. Of course, then the fears usually occur in a less intense form than in intense relationships. But the pattern of progression is very similar in friendships as well as in relationships. People who carry the strong feeling of abandonment usually have emotionally unsettled and volatile relationships or avoid them altogether. Even the smallest change in the partner is dramatized and fuels the thought of being abandoned. Especially at the beginning of the relationship, people often cling, and over time, jealousy and possessiveness also play a major role. Either way, the danger of being abandoned by one's partner is at the center of emotional events.
People who are often confronted with the feeling of abandonment should come to understand that the cause of this feeling lies far back. Most likely, as mentioned above, it originated in childhood. It can help to try to recall these past images. If one aligns the past with current events marked by the feeling of abandonment, one will be able to make a connection. By becoming aware of a recurring pattern, one is ultimately able to better recognize such life situations and use EFT to disconnect the emotional attachment. Otherwise, from the subconscious mind through the beliefs at work, these situations are drawn into life again and again .
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