Improvement of self-confidence, self-esteem and self-confidence
with the help of mind clearing
A very common problem is the lack of self-confidence, and this has far-reaching consequences, also and especially with regard to the law of
of attraction, or spiritual laws in general. Because the law of attraction or law of resonance is only one of seven laws.
So where does this low self-awareness come from and what is it anyway?
Because a lack of self-confidence always goes hand in hand with a lack of self-confidence.
A uniform definition is not easy to find, and that is why there is no generally valid royal road to it. In order to have an approach at all
I define it as the accumulation of negative feelings about oneself.
Where do the negative feelings come from? Everyone who wants to influence our behavior does so on the principle of reinforcing what they think is good through praise,
but even more by criticism and disapproval when we don't function the way they want us to. And it is precisely these disapprovals and critical remarks that
make us not feel good. Let's think of a small child who would like to romp around or just look at the world.
In short, it wants to live out its needs. But these are not recognized, the child is supposed to be quiet and is not allowed to go everywhere to satisfy his curiosity.
This already results in a conflict, which is:
"If I am the way I am, then I am not good, I do not function the way others want me to.
So I am not good."
And these methods exist from parents, from school, in teaching, and so on and so forth. It's a never-ending story. Everyone who wants something from us
unconsciously applies the method and everyone can ask himself when he last heard that he is all right, just as he is.
In addition, there is a never-ending competition, fueled by a system that grades and evaluates, and this is quite one-sided.
Whoever has acquired the most knowledge gets good grades, whoever has less knowledge (or knowledge that is not needed at the moment) goes away empty-handed. This is a one-sided evaluation,
because knowledge alone does not bring much, other talents such as creativity or manual skills come totally too short.
I come more and more to the conclusion that a lack of self-confidence and a lack of self-esteem is the main problem for many people.
many people. Because the consequence is a lack of self-confidence.
If I am not aware of myself, if I do not value myself as I should, then I do not have much confidence in myself. And should I actually succeed in something in life
something good in life, then I immediately have a bad conscience, saying that I didn't deserve it that way.
And this lack of self-confidence is then unconsciously radiated outward, often with far-reaching consequences, because others also unconsciously pick up on it.
unconsciously. We may not get the job for which we are suited, business deals fail, we cling to relationships that are not
that are not useful for us, and so on. And since we are the creator of our lives, it can generally be said that we do not create the optimal reality because we are not worthy of it.
Our self-esteem is the core of our power to create our life, which means nothing else than that the quality of our life is primarily related to it.
Now there are many approaches, the shelves in the bookstores are full of books about positive thinking,
we are supposed to see the beautiful sides of life and to do this we should practice great Practice affirmations.
We are encouraged to focus more on our strengths and so on. All of these approaches are great and are to be applauded, but the real
Breakthrough we usually don't have. Why? Because the lack of self-esteem is just showered by an overdose of positivism.
The ingrained self-doubt and negative feelings are usually very stubborn and persist within you.
Think of it like a bus ride, you're at the wheel, steering the bus through your life, and behind you, the self-doubt and negative feelings about you are sitting
as backseat passengers. And foolishly, they think they are sitting in the front.
So what to do? Through Mind Clearing, we take these backseat passengers, one by one, work on them, and thereby kick them
out of the bus. This way he can no longer torpedo our lives and undermine our good intentions.
And what do I do if one of these passengers says, "Yes, but back then you did this and that, that was totally wrong, and now you're to blame because this and that happened.
because this and that happened." Well, we simply make it clear to him that there is no blame, we couldn't have decided otherwise at the time, because otherwise we would have
otherwise we would have done it. And poof, he's off the bus. In a high arc, we no longer need him as ballast for our lives.
The remedy of choice for the individual passengers is MCTS (Mind Clearing Tapping Solution), with it we take away the emotional power
they have, after that they are just an empty shell, easily lifted and removed.
Even if there are hundreds of passengers at the beginning, with each one that flies out, there will be one less problem and one less self-doubt that gnaws at your
self-worth. The process may take a few weeks throughout, but it doesn't matter because you notice each one of them. Become an observer
of yourself, and see how it gets better with each day, and you also become more powerful with it each day. The changes in you are so subtle and gradual,
that you often have to look more closely to notice anything. Because it feels natural, because it feels coherent, because you are moving towards the perfect core of your being. Tune into it, pay attention to yourself. Because only if you remain your own observer, you will notice the change that is taking place. And also pay attention to the reactions of the people you interact with, they will notice your transformation and mirror it to you.
The result is that your bus and therefore your life will become lighter and lighter, with every ballast you throw off it becomes easier and you can steer
wherever you want.
You create your life, every day and every moment anew, you cannot not create.
So you might as well start choosing the best of all possibilities.
You have the power.
(from the book : "Mind Clearing")
