The Four Mirror Laws

The mirror laws are based on the equivalent "as inside, so outside" and thus on the 3rd Hermetic Law

1. MIRROR LAW
Everything that bothers me, annoys, excites me and makes me angry and I want to have it differently is something I have in me.
Everything I criticize about the other and fight or want to change,
I criticize, fight or suppress in truth within myself
and would like it to be different.

2. MIRROR LAW
Everything that the other person criticizes, fights and wants to change in me and if that hurts me, it affects me – this is not yet redeemed in me.
My ego is offended – it's still strong.

3. MIRROR LAW
Everything that the other person criticizes me and accuses me of or wants to have differently and fights against me and this does not affect me, it is his own image, his own character, his own inadequacies that he projects onto me.

4. MIRROR LAW
Everything I like about the other, what I love about him, is myself, I have myself in myself and love this in the other.

I recognize myself in the other. We are one on these points.
When you have recognized these laws, you will understand the following:

If you criticize or condemn yourself,
then others will criticize and condemn you.
If you hurt yourself,
then others will hurt you.
If you lie to yourself,
others will lie to you.
If you don't act responsibly towards yourself,
then others will be irresponsible towards you.
If you blame yourself,
others will accuse you.
If you don't pay attention to your own feelings,
no one will pay attention to your feelings.
If you love yourself,
others will love you too.
If you respect yourself,
then others will respect you.
If you trust yourself,
then others will trust you too.
If you're honest with yourself,
others will also be honest with you.
If you give yourself recognition,
then others will also give you recognition.
If you protect yourself,
others will protect you too.
When you enjoy yourself,
then others will also enjoy you.